How we girls think!
Hello beautiful people of the Internet! Long time no chat! Today's post is all about what goes on in the brain of a girl. Although I think pink, the range of my thoughts don't end there. I'm aware of current events, politics, and all the latest news in world of entertainment. The human brain has always been the most fascinating feature of the human body to me since I was petite, sweet, and small. The female brain is another story. The opposite sex seems to wonder what goes on in this brain of ours. I don't blame them, I mean we girls think about so much, sometimes we overthink!
How can we live with the fact that we caused that situation, "we could've invited her to come with us because she knows all of the girls going",even if she doesn't she's my friend so does it matter? "We made plans to go to the party together two weekends in advanced but I'm going to leave her out anyway."Ask yourself, is this scenario okay? Put yourself in the girls shoes. The answer is No, it's not okay.
"why and how, do we girls do what we do?
Simple question. Complicated answer.
I've decided to write this article because I don't understand why girls think it's okay to leave each other out, Talk about their "BFF" behind their back and then receive the juicy details from them, and repeat. That's not a "BFF" to me. And I would be lying if I said all girls are like this, some females do the right thing on a day to day basis. These are the girls that get hurt by the "BFF's" in this world and have to deal with the pain of letting them go and starting over. How do I know this because I've been the friend of a "BFF". I know what it's like to be on the outside looking in the circle of people who don't want you in their "group". Why can't we just say what we really mean instead of playing games with one another. We don't have to be the best of friends, but it would be nice to just give a simple hello & goodbye Or even a soft smile of acknowledgement as we pass in the crowded hallways of school. If Regina George and Cady Heron can do it, we can as well! We should be supporting one another not judging, hurting, spreading rumors, and body shaming, each other!
Support your local girl gang! Always know that you have someone who probably can relate to your scenario. It could be the girl that sits across from you in class, or the person you make a second of eye contact with in the hallways of school, or even your so called "BFF" just trying to make it in the world.
"The future is indeed female ladies"
So let's stop just saying it, let's make it happen!
Until next post babes
XOXO
Ava M.